Hi ya'll! I can't believe we're already in the last week of April. These months are just flying by. San Diego is warming up and summer is around the corner. Did I really just say summer is coming already? We didn't get much of a fall/winter so I feel like we've been in summer all year long though.
I want to be honest, as usually I am, this blog has take a backseat in my everyday life. I used to blog regularly back in 2011-2013 or so. Matter of fact, I never shared my wedding photos, the details or anything like that. Fast forward to now, I want to bring it back. I want to share all my wedding info, recipes I have found and created, my love of fashion,opening my own boutique , how I mange to work 3 jobs, be a mom, wife, and friend. There's so much to blog about when I used to think there was nothing.
I want my blog to come back alive and for it to be a place I can come and express myself to matter the issue, feelings or anything. I really do need to update it though.
This leads me to, for the last month or so I have been extremely overwhelmed, anxious, nervous, discouraged and everything else. I am learning I am spreading myself way too thin and I really need to reel it back in and take a seat to focus on what matters to me. This is how I was feeling when I went on my hiatus of blogging a few years back and never really come back around.
In the last month, I have learned a lot of things about myself. I work a ton. I do not take time for self care. I worry about everyone else first. My social life is struggle busing. Plus so much more. Yesterday, I decided I am going to just take the day off. Yes, I did some work but not nearly what I normally do and I felt so much better.
Meanwhile, I brainstormed some ideas on how to balance my life and I want to share them with you.
- Go to the gym
- Take a walk with a friend
- Quit working for the day
- Order takeout
- Binge watch your favorite show
- Read a good book
- Be lazy for a day
- Put your phone down
- Shut your computer off
- Go get a manicure and pedicure
- Get your hair done
- Buy a new outfit
- Drink a glass of wine
- Make a lunch date with a friend
- Clean your house
- Drink lots of water
- Write your goals down
Don't feel overwhelmed with summer coming. Take it one step at a time.
What do you do when you feel anxious, nervous, overwhelmed?
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